Not in my world and not the way you put it. Bahar is a professional player and Guidetti is a professional coach, and they should be able to separate their private life from their professional life. If Bahar the player considers transfering to Fenerbahce as right, then she should do it. It has nothing whatsoever to do with Bahar the wife.
Separating your private life from your professional one is not that easy, especially when the realation is wife and husband.. probably that's why bahar preferred to play abroad instead of staying in Istanbul and face her husband in a very tense derby.
I see the things from a different angle.. when you are married, you need to choose not only what is the best for you but also what is the best for your (life) partner.