I personally think it's a stupid question, because the one is a sport and the other a person (hopefully anyway). I think right now I love my girlfriend more, but I've known volleyball a lot longer. They both treat me really well these days. I've had days where both my girlfriend and volleyball did not treat me nice though. I think the trick is to start by being nice to them. So many people are mean to volleyball when it doesn't give them what they want. I think you should love volleyball even when it gives you the worst game of your life. I also think this about your partner. Even when she's angry, confused, you should still be nice. Not because she is angry, but because she is your girlfriend.. or better yet, because she is a person.